My buyer's deposit is a gift from family. Should I worry?

What is a gifted deposit?

A gifted deposit is money given to a buyer, usually by a parent or grandparent, towards the deposit on a home. To count as a gift it has to be given with no expectation of repayment and no claim over the property. If the money has to be paid back, it is a family loan, and lenders treat the two very differently.

For you as the seller, the practical difference is small: the buyer still has to satisfy the same lender and the same solicitor. It simply means one more person's paperwork sits in the file.

Is a gifted deposit common, or is my buyer unusual?

It is now the normal route onto the ladder. Savills research, reported on 8 June 2026, found 53% of first-time buyers received direct financial support from family through gifts, loans or inheritance, worth around £11bn during 2025. Outright gifts were the most common form at 32% of first-time buyers.

The shares overlap, because most buyers combine two or three of these. The age split is telling: 63% of buyers aged 20 to 24 had family help, against 44% of those aged 45 and over. If your buyer is young and buying alone, family money is closer to the rule than the exception.

What extra checks does a gifted deposit trigger?

Three parties want to see the same thing, which is that the money is genuinely a gift and that it came from a legitimate source.

• The lender wants a signed gift letter from the donor stating the amount, that it is not repayable, and that the donor has no interest in the property.
• The buyer's solicitor has to verify the donor's identity and evidence the source of the funds under money laundering rules, which usually means photo ID, proof of address and bank statements.
• If the donor sold an asset or drew down savings to make the gift, the solicitor may ask for the paper trail behind that too.
• Some lenders limit who may gift a deposit, most commonly to immediate family, so a gift from a friend or a distant relative needs checking early.

None of this is a judgement on your buyer. It is the same process every gifted deposit goes through, and it is quick when the donor is contactable and slow when they are not.

What is normal, and what is an actual red flag?

What should I do this week?

1. 1. Ask your agent three specific questions

   Has the buyer's mortgage application been submitted, has the donor been identified to the solicitor, and has the gift letter been signed? Those three answers tell you more than any conversation about how keen the buyer is.

2. 2. Get the donor into the process early

   Ask, through your agent, that the buyer's solicitor collects the donor's identification and bank statements now rather than at the point of exchange. This is the single step that removes most gifted deposit delays.

3. 3. Keep your own side moving

   Instruct your solicitor, complete your property forms, and get your own paperwork ready. Your progress costs little and it protects your timeline whichever way the buyer's funding goes.

4. 4. Watch spend, not sentiment

   A buyer who has paid a solicitor, submitted a mortgage application and booked a survey has committed real money. A buyer who has only spoken warmly about the house has committed nothing.

5. 5. Set a checkpoint date

   Agree a date, usually two to three weeks out, by which the mortgage application and the gift paperwork should be in. If that date passes with nothing to show, you have a fact to act on rather than a feeling.

How do I protect my sale without pushing my buyer away?

The asymmetry in a UK sale is that the seller usually spends first. You instruct a solicitor, pay for management information if you are selling a flat, and take the home off the market, while the buyer can still be looking at other properties and has often spent nothing at all.

So gate the expensive, hard to reverse moves on evidence of the buyer's own spending. Instructing your solicitor early is cheap and it keeps momentum. Coming fully off the market and paying for packs and searches can wait until the mortgage application is in and the gift paperwork is moving.

A gifted deposit tells you where the money came from. It tells you nothing about whether your buyer is serious. What they have instructed and paid for tells you that.

Common questions about gifted deposits

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